THE
WORD
SEPTEMBER 1913
| Copyright 1913 naHW PERCIVAL |
MAMA NESHAMWARI
Zvakanakisisa here kuti munhu anofanira kudzivisa zvishuvo zvake zvepabonde, uye anofanirwa kuedza kurarama hupenyu hwekusagadzikana here?
Izvo zvinofanirwa kutsamira pane chinangwa uye hunhu hwemurume. Hazvina kumbobvira zvakanaka kuedza kupwanya kana kuuraya chishuwo chebonde; asi zvinogara zvakanaka kuzvidzora uye kuzvidzora. Kana munhu asina kana chinhu chakanakira icho chebonde; kana munhu achitongwa nechisikirwo chemhuka; uye kana munhu achirarama kuti afare uye afarire, kuti agare achifunga mafaro ezvepabonde, hazvigoneke kwaari kuyedza kupwanya kana kuuraya zvishuwo zvake zvebonde-kunyangwe iye achigona “kurarama hupenyu hwekusaroora.”
Zvinoenderana ne "Standard Dictionary," kusaroora zvinoreva, "mamiriro emunhu asina kuroora kana kuroora, kunyanya yemurume asina kuroora; kurega kuroora; kunge, kusaroora kwehupirisita. ”Celibate anonzi,“ anoramba asina kuroora; kunyanya, murume anosungirwa kuroora kana kuroorwa nemhiko dzechitendero. ”
Mumwe ane muviri nepfungwa akakodzera kuroora, asi anogara hupenyu hwekusaroora kuitira kuti atize hutano, mutoro uye mhedzisiro yewanano, uye iye asina kuda uye shungu yekudzora chimiro chake chebonde, kazhinji dambudziko munhu, angave kana asina kusununguka kubva pamhiko, angave kana asina kutora mirairo uye ari pasi pekuchengetedza nekuchengetedza chechi. Kuchena uye kuchena kwekufunga kwakakosha kune hupenyu hwekusarudzika mune uyo waizopinda mumweya wehupenyu ihwohwo. Kune vashoma macelibates, vasina kuroora kana kuroorwa, vanopindwa muropa nemifungo uye zviito zvebonde kupfuura avo vanogara vakaroora.
Vanhu vanonzwa vakasununguka munyika uye vakakodzera mumuviri, mutsika, mupfungwa kuti varoorane, kazhinji vanoregeredza mabasa uye vanonzvenga mitoro nokuramba vasina kuroora. Chikonzero chekuti munhu ararame hupenyu hwekusaroora hachifanire kuve: kusunungurwa pazvisungo, mabasa, mabasa, zvemutemo kana neimwewo nzira; mhiko, kutendeuka, hurongwa hwechitendero; kuwana hunhu; kuwana mubayiro; kuwana kukwirira musimba renyama kana remweya. Chikonzero chekurarama hupenyu husina kuroorwa hunofanira kuva: kuti munhu haakwanisi kuzadzisa mabasa aakazviitira uye anoda kuita, uye panguva imwechete ave akatendeka kumabasa anofanirwa kuhurumende yewanano; kureva kuti upenyu hwewanano hwaizomukodzera kuita basa rake. Ikoku hakurevi kuti rimwe basa rokufungidzira kana kuti fashoni chikonzero chokuchengeta munhu asina kuroora. Hapana basa kana basa rinopa waranti yekusaroora. Roorano haisati iri chipingamupinyi kune icho chinowanzonzi “chechitendero” kana kuti “chomudzimu” upenyu. Zvinzvimbo zvechitendero zvine hunhu zvinogona kuzadzwa nevakaroora kana kuroora kana kuroorwa; uye kazhinji nekuchengetedzwa kwakawanda kune anoreurura uye kureurura kupfuura apo mureururi anenge asina kuroora. Munhu akaroora kana kuroorwa kazhinji ndiye anokwanisa kupa mazano pane asina kuroora kana kuroorwa.
Kusaroora kunokosha kune uyo akatsunga kuwana kusafa. Asi vavariro yake mukurarama kwakadaro inofanira kuva, kuti nokudaro ashumire zviri nani rudzi rwake rwomunhu. Kureurura haisiriyo nzvimbo yemunhu anenge ava kuda kupinda munzira inoenda kuupenyu husingafi; uye paanenge ari kure munzira achava nebasa rinokosha zvikuru. Uyo akakodzera kurarama hupenyu hwekusaroora haazove asina chokwadi chebasa rake. Uyo akakodzera kurarama upenyu hwokusaroora haana kusununguka pakuchiva; asi haaedzi kuipwanya kana kuiuraya. Anodzidza kuzvidzora uye kuzvidzora. Izvi anodzidza uye anozviita noungwaru uye kuda. Munhu anofanira kurarama hupenyu hwekusaroora mukufunga, asati agona kutaura chokwadi. Ipapo anoraramira vose, asingakuvadzi iye kana vamwe.
Shamwari [HW Percival]